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THE CONFIDENT COMMUNICATOR COURSE

Change your communication patterns to resolve conflict, deepen connection, and feel understood—without fear of fights or defensiveness. 

THE CONFIDENT COMMUNICATOR COURSE
Change your communication patterns to resolve conflict, deepen connection, and feel understood—without fear of fights or defensiveness. 
 
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Redefine the way you and your partner connect, especially during moments of tension or disagreement.

 

Join this self-paced, video course taught by an experienced couples and family therapist and communication expert where you will gain skills to:

Build  Emotional Safety

Discover how to address issues without causing conflict and create an environment where both partners feel heard and valued.

Strengthen Understanding

Gain tools to listen deeply, validate emotions, and understand your partner’s perspective, even when you don’t agree.

Transform Conflict into Growth

Develop strategies to navigate disagreements with confidence, turning moments of tension into opportunities for connection. ___

Foster Lasting Intimacy

By improving communication and resolving recurring issues, couples can create a foundation for long-term closeness and mutual respect.

Talk Like You Love Each Other: A Communication Skills Course

Learn to recognize and change the communication patterns that are undermining your relationship, without hours on the therapy couch.

$249.00 USD

What’s Inside the Course?

🎥 5+ hours of self-paced video coaching – Learn proven communication strategies at your own pace, from the comfort of home.

💬 Practical skills in action – Watch 5 real-life couples apply these tools, so you can see exactly how it works in real relationships.

📄 Downloadable worksheets & resources – Get hands-on tools and exercises to put what you’ve learned into practice right away.

✨ BONUS tips & expert tricks – Extra strategies to help you feel confident and connected, starting today!

Communicating confidently is key to making your relationship last.

 

If you’re ready to deepen your connection with your partner and feel truly understood by the person you love most, you're in the right place.

 

Hey! It's Aly :) 

 

As a Couples & Family Therapist, communication breakdown is the #1 most common issue my clients experience. It’s something we all encounter at some point in our relationships—not because we lack the desire for strong and beautiful connections, but because we don’t recognize our negative communication patterns in time to stop them from creating cycles of misunderstanding and isolation. I created The Confident Communicator Course specifically to help couples like you identify the root causes of their miscommunication and develop practical tools to transform frustration into clarity, disconnection into understanding, and conflict into meaningful connection.

Discover How to Build the Confidence to Communicate Openly and Effectively

After failed attempts, it's daunting to muster the courage to be vulnerable or bring up issues in your relationship. When unresolved issues pile up, honest conversations feel intimidating and both partners end up feeling misunderstood and unseen.

This often leads us to avoid addressing what’s really bothering us, thinking it’ll just create more tension. Or we might worry our partner won’t truly understand where we’re coming from.

Throughout the course, you'll watch in real-time as I guide couples through their negative communication patterns and help them move past the blocks that make open communication difficult.  

 
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Module 1: Address What’s Bothering You (Without Shutting Down Yourself or Your Partner)

I begin by teaching The Gentle Start-Up, a Gottman Institute technique rooted in research to help you bring up issues without causing a fight. You’ll learn how to identify the right time and place and explore when to communicate verbally or in writing. With practical skills in assertive communication, you’ll be able to express yourself clearly and confidently, without shutting down or escalating conflict.

Module 2: Respond Without Defensiveness (Even When You Disagree)

In this module, you’ll discover mindful communication techniques to help you pause, breathe, and respond calmly rather than react. You’ll also learn the powerful skill of finding one thing you can agree with in your partner’s perspective. By mastering the art of validation without agreeing, you’ll be able to acknowledge your partner’s emotions without feeling like you’re compromising your own beliefs, setting a foundation for trust and empathy.

Module 3: Be Accountable and Assertive 

In this module, you’ll learn how to balance taking responsibility for your actions while standing firm in expressing your needs. By practicing accountability, you’ll show your partner that you value their perspective and are willing to own your part in the relationship dynamic. Simultaneously, you’ll develop assertiveness techniques to express your feelings and boundaries clearly and respectfully, fostering open dialogue without defensiveness.                        

Module 4: Find Common Ground (On the Issues That Keep Coming Up)

This module is about bridging gaps and creating shared understanding. You’ll learn how to unpack the story behind your partner’s position, using curiosity to gain empathy. You’ll explore your core values and use a concentric circles exercise to identify non-negotiables and areas of flexibility. With these tools, you’ll be able to compromise in ways that feel authentic, bringing you closer together on issues that once divided you.  ----------------------------------------------- 

Module 5: Repair After a Fight (Even When You’ve Gone Too Far)

In this final module, you’ll gain the skills to mend emotional wounds and repair trust. Starting with a reflective journaling practice, you’ll learn how to process your own feelings before re-engaging. You’ll master techniques for co-regulation and learn the value of seeking first to understand before jumping to solutions. By the end of this module, you’ll have tools to help you and your partner come back together even after the toughest arguments.          

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Here’s a Sample of What You’ll Gain:

  • Techniques to Express Yourself Confidently – Learn the Gentle Start-Up, HALT method, and assertive communication skills that empower you to speak up without fear.
  • Defusing Defensiveness – Get practical strategies to respond calmly, using mindful breathing and validation to keep conversations constructive.
  • Building Common Ground – Discover ways to identify shared values and make meaningful compromises that deepen connection.
  • Taking a Respectful Break – Understand when to step back, how to take a break, and how to return with a clear, open mindset.
  • Repairing and Reconnecting – Gain tools to rebuild trust and understanding after a fight, so that conflicts bring you closer instead of creating distance.
  • Empathic Listening – Develop the skill of truly hearing your partner, making them feel valued, respected, and cherished.
  • Recognizing Your Conflict Style – Uncover your natural responses to conflict so you can choose more thoughtful reactions.
  • Setting Up a Safe Space for Communication – Learn to create an environment where both partners feel safe and open, encouraging honesty and vulnerability.
  • Understanding and Validating Emotions – Master the skill of validating your partner’s feelings without feeling pressured to agree, building a foundation of empathy.
  • Avoiding Common Communication Traps – Learn to sidestep the pitfalls that often lead couples into misunderstandings and frustration.
  • Tools for Meaningful Conversations – Discover simple, effective techniques that make even tough talks feel constructive and safe.
  • Building Positive Daily Habits – Establish routines that keep your relationship vibrant and connected, even through everyday challenges.

And so much more! The Confident Communicator Course is a complete, step-by-step guide to handling tough conversations, bringing you closer and strengthening your relationship with each module.

Ready to feel truly understood and build the connection you deserve? Let's start today!

YES! I Want to Communicate Confidently and Create a Relationship I Love!

Don’t Miss This Limited-Time Early Supporter Pricing!

The full value of The Confident Communicator Course is $1200—but as an early supporter, you’ll get everything below for just $249:


  • 5+ hours of self-paced coaching: $800
  • Practical skills demonstrated by real couples: $300
  • Downloadable worksheets & resources: $50
  • BONUS tips & tricks for better communication: $50

âś… Your Price Today: $249


That’s over $1200 of value for less than the cost of one private session! You’ll learn research-backed techniques, gain lifetime access to all materials, and have the flexibility to pause, re-watch, and work at your own pace whenever you need.

And don’t forget—it’s completely risk-free. If you don’t feel this course aligns with your needs, just email hello@alysonbullock.com within 30 days for a no-questions-asked refund.

Act now to take advantage of this special offer—your relationship deserves this!

 

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Coaching Client

“We loved working with Alyson! She pushed us to be honest and vulnerable with each other while helping us remember and appreciate all the reasons we love each other. It changed the way we communicate for the better and gave us the skills to reground ourselves when there are stressful or not ideal moments."

Coaching Client

“I felt very comfortable and free in responding and talking through the session. My partner and I were able to even be more lighthearted about our issues and see it with a different perspective. Aly was so encouraging and understanding. She met us both where we are at and made us both feel heard and understood. Her way of guiding questions made the conversation easier and relaxed. Her kindness and welcoming presence was so helpful.”

Coaching Client

"Thank you for the incredible guidance and resources you’ve shared with us. You’ve helped us strengthen our foundation, and we’re continuing to grow with the tools you’ve provided.”